Showing posts with label coaching Christian executives. Show all posts
Showing posts with label coaching Christian executives. Show all posts

Monday, May 25, 2009

Six Months of Coaching Christian Executives

I recently sat down to reflect on the last six months of coaching Christian executives and leaders.

I wanted to review the topics that clients brought to our coaching calls so we could anticipate areas where we could improve our service to them and so I could do further study for my own personal and professional growth.  I've done this regularly over the past 11 years of full-time professional coaching.

Just what do Christian executives work on with their Coach? Here is my top 10 list from over the last six months spent working with my clients.

  1. To make their organization even better. It may sound simple, even trite,  but it has big consequences. Leaders were focused on improving across all areas of the organization. Not satisfied with maintaining what is, they were intentionally reaching for what can be.

  2. To increase their ability to leverage their time. Leaders wanted to work on achieving their highest priorities as much as possible. Almost to a person, they realized that there was room for better use of time and planning that could be made.

  3. To improve how they work with people. Executives and leaders have to work with people to make priorities happen. Clients have consistently worked on improving how they interact with others. We've done a lot of work on speed reading people for better communications and relationships.

  4. To tease out incubating ideas. This is an exhilarating area. If half of the ideas produce that my clients are working on, it will make a tremendous impact for good.

  5. To reveal and work on blind spots. Clients know that they need to grow. They know that they have blind spots that need to be addressed and over the course of coaching they expect those career limiting behaviors to be spotted and dealt with.

  6. To work more effectively with their boards. Some executives work as leaders of nonprofits and have to prepare for important board presentations, coordinate and strategize with the board chair and generally work in harmony with the board. The want to keep sharp and realize improvements in this area.

  7. To expand, clarify and articulate a collective vision and strategy. If there is one area we work on most often it is that of getting clarity .. particularly in the context of seeing what's possible, harvesting the vision of the whole team and reaching for it with well articulated strategy and inspiration.

  8. To have a safe, confidential place to vent. It's lonely at the top. There are frustrations and people problems. Things move too slowly or run into complicated roadblocks. I have the most professional, caring group of clients but like anyone, sometimes they just need a few seconds to express their frustration. I'm glad I can provide that place. It happens ... then we get on with moving forward.

  9. To get non-judgmental feedback. A lot of time has been spent simply being a sounding board. I become the testing ground for new ideas, insights and musings and because of years of experience am able to provide the back and forth that helps the executive come up with their best.

  10. To reduce stress and help avoiding burnout. Leadership is stressful. Clients worked on incorporating the lessons of stress to create greater resilience moving forward. Dealing immediately and head on with those things that sap emotional energy keeps clients avoiding burnout.


You might have thought that because these were Christian executives and leaders, they would be working on great matters of faith. In fact, with all of my Christian clients, their faith forms the backdrop for working on all issues of everyday work and leadership. Their faith is the 'operating system' running in the background and giving direction to the rest.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

What's so Different About Coaching Christian Executives?

What's so different about coaching Christian executives?

In one sense, nothing. They bring opportunities and problems to their coaching strategy session just like any other executive. They want a sounding board for their ideas just like any other leader. They have successes under their belt and still sense they can do better and achieve more ... just like any other executive. Not much difference.

In another sense, much. What is unmistakable about coaching Christian executives is the worldview that underlies their life and leadership. It is a worldview that is based on scripture - the Bible. They want the Bible and what it says to form them as individuals and as leaders. They want a relationship with God to be the catalyst that defines the energy they bring to everyday leadership and family life.

Living out a practical, life-affecting relationship with God forms their 'operating system'. No, it doesn't make them perfect ... or think they are perfect. It makes them realize that moment by moment they need the divine assistance of God to be the best they can be.

What does the Christian executive or leader want to talk about?

  • I want to get away from the edge of burnout.

  • I work very late in the office and I can't seem to catch up.

  • Leadership skills development.

  • I need assistance in relating to the board and bringing them into the decision making process.

  • I need help making a smooth transition of leadership.


Not much different right? But they have also brought up:

  • To be clear about the Lord's direction for my career.

  • Regain my passion and desire for the things God has called me to do.

  • Growth spiritually.


Notice the operating system running in the background ... practical, living-it-out, daily relationship with God.

Christian executives and leaders are high caliber individuals. They passionately lead forward significant companies, causes, projects and programs. They view their work as an assignment from God and seek His wisdom and assistance. They pursue success and when they achieve it they are happy to return the glory to God.

  • In relationship with Almighty God

  • Acknowledging you don't have it all, but He does

  • Seeking divine help to be the very best you can be

  • Seeing and relating to your staff through God's view of them

  • Drawing on God's strength to go through tough economic times

  • Not being defined by what you do but by who you are in God's sight

  • Pursuing excellence because God has given you the potential to do so

  • And the list goes on


Now I would say these men and women are on to something.